Counseling for Couples

Online Counseling to strengthen Your Relationship

When you’re focused on everyone else: what happens to “us”?

Healthy relationships take effort, and with so many demands on our time, energy, and attention, it’s easy to stop carving out space to care for the relationship — and each other.

Relationships are deeply personal — and every couple brings their own unique history, culture, and perspective. At KonTerra Counseling and Psychological Services, our couples counseling services honor and respect that diversity, providing a safe, inclusive space where both partners can feel heard, valued, and understood.

Maybe you’re noticing:

  • A desire to grow closer and reconnect emotionally

  • Trust issues or past betrayals that are hard to move past

  • Parenting challenges or differing styles

  • Uncertainty about your future together

The journey of “us” has its challenges. Let’s navigate them together.

our approach to working with couples

We see couples counseling as a partnership, where our expertise in relationship dynamics meets your intimate knowledge of your unique bond.

We honor the diversity you bring and tailor our approach to address your specific needs and goals. Together, we'll identify the obstacles hindering your connection and work towards creating a more fulfilling and resilient "us," fostering a space where both partners feel understood and supported in their individual and shared experiences.

Our goal is to help you identify patterns, understand each other's needs more clearly, and build stronger pathways for connection and growth, no matter the challenges you face or direction your relationship takes.

What we’ll work on

Therapy can help your relationship:

  • Navigate life transitions — like children, elderly parents, and job changes

  • Learn to handle conflict more constructively and “fight fairly”

  • Explore differing values more productively

  • Deepen emotional and physical intimacy

  • Break unhelpful patterns of communication and discover new ones

  • Improve parenting and co-parenting skills

  • Define a future with clarity and grace, whatever its path

We’re here to see your relationship flourish.

FAQS

Common questions about counseling for couples

  • Yes, it can help clarify feelings, communicate more effectively during separation, work towards reconciliation, or move through a breakup with greater care toward each other.

  • A couples counseling session is typically planned for 75 minutes. Some couples may benefit from an “intensive” session, which is two or more 75-minute sessions in one day. The frequency of couples counseling can be influenced by a number of factors and will be collaboratively agreed upon in your first sessions.

  • Not at all!

    Many couples can benefit from counseling in all stages of relationship, whether dating, engaged, long-term partners, married, or co-parenting. It can help address specific challenges like communication breakdowns, frequent conflict, intimacy issues, parenting concerns, the impact of infidelity, navigating life transitions, or simply wanting to deepen your connection and understanding.